I’m sure you know as well as I do that sometimes girl world isn’t a fun place to be. There are rumors, fights, drama, and just general negativity. This morning, I saw a really cool hashtag campaign which worked to change these things by spreading positive messages to girls and creating a safe online space for girls to share encouraging messages.
The campaign, #ToTheGirls2016, was created by Courtney Summers, a bestselling author who wanted to “let girls know they matter” and spread “messages of support, advice, positivity, and empowerment to girls across social media.” The hashtag trended on Twitter today, with girls sharing positive messages about being unique, standing up for yourself, and the power every girl holds to make a difference.
As I scrolled through the Tweets, my heart swelled at the wisdom of the advice I was reading. It’s such a great feeling to read uplifting messages and feel inspired by them – especially from your fellow girls. #ToTheGirls2016 created an online community of girls reminding each other of how amazing we are and the potential we have.
Like I mentioned earlier: girl world isn’t always a fun place. Not only is there drama, but there are a lot of unrealistic expectations placed on girls by the media; not to mention the double standards, sexism, and unequal opportunities (and pay) that face girls. The messages I read on Twitter today were a shining reminder that despite the struggles girls and women face, we are fighting back in the best way: with kindness.
Courtney Summers, who started #ToTheGirls2016, Tweeted that a message saying that if the campaign inspired just one girl, it had done it’s job; and I think it inspired not just one girl, but thousands.
If you’re in need of a reminder of how amazing you are (you’re amazing, by the way!) read through some of the #ToTheGirls2016 Tweets. I can guarantee you’ll feel happy after reading them!
I’ve just spent the past few minutes scrolling through the #tothegirls2016 tag and I agree, it’s fantastic. I love to see girls and women join together to combat negativity and the unrealistic expectations that are constantly placed on us by society and our peers. We are taught that there is a certain mould that a girl must fit into in order to be worthwhile. If you’re someone who does not fit into this ideal of perfection, you have to look within yourself and create your own.
With the advent of social media and the rise of well-rounded female characters on television, it’s easy to think that we’ve progressed to a point where we can sit back down again and get comfortable. This is certainly not the case, as we must continue to demand space for minority, disabled and transgender women. These women have strong voices and through social media are given the power to amplify those voices.
Another trending topic on social media today has been Will Smith, Jada Pinkett Smith and Spike Lee’s decision to boycott this year’s Academy Awards. This is now the second consecutive year that actors of colour have not been nominated. As I read this, I couldn’t help but think about the African-American, Latina and Asian girls who would be sitting down to watch the Oscars and not see themselves represented whatsoever. Will this lead them to believe that their stories are not worth being told? I sure hope not, because they most certainly are.
It’s vital that messages of support and encouragement continue to be shared and shouted. Let us lend our voices to the chorus that strives to lift girls up instead of tearing them down.